Drew Barrymore Debuts as Us Weekly Columnist Offering Advice on Life Love and Holidays

Us Weekly welcomes Drew Barrymore as its latest contributing writer. In this segment, the acclaimed actress, beloved talk show host, and savvy entrepreneur offers guidance to three individuals seeking her wisdom:

I'm delighted to address your inquiries, sending all my love!

A query from @lucyhstaples:
Dearest Drew,
How do you strike a balance between pursuing your aspirations and maintaining a sense of realism?

My goodness, I find myself pondering, “What truly defines practicality?” I believe it pertains more to an internal state than a mere routine. Our desire is to steer our existence in a manner that avoids actions leading to self-reproach. For me, practicality means conducting myself in a way that, while pursuing ambitions, I can still maintain inner contentment regarding the equilibrium and focus I dedicate to various aspects of my life. Existence is inherently chaotic. Therefore, a method to remain “grounded” is to cultivate emotional logic. Achieving this is challenging, so I wish you strength. Nevertheless, we make an effort. And we strive for excellence.

Warmly, Drew

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From @magpie6060:
Beloved Drew,
Could you offer any suggestions for holiday decorations?

Identify your personal style and embrace it fully. Do you gravitate towards the flamboyant, novelty festive jumper aesthetic? Do you dive headfirst into the festive season, opting for grandeur and extravagance? If so, pursue that direction. Conversely, do you prefer a more artisanal, elegant, and thoughtfully selected approach? Should that be the case, follow that path and let your individuality shine. Each year, I cherish the activity of adorning the Christmas tree with my girls, a practice I hold dear as my own upbringing lacked such consistent traditions. I keep the familiar cardboard container filled with all the decorations, each piece bringing back specific memories of its acquisition, and playing the classic Peanuts Christmas soundtrack during this time is a cherished ritual. It's essential for us to imbue our family customs with profound significance, perhaps to compensate for a scarcity of such experiences in our own youth.

Sincerely, Drew

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A question from @sjhottie5:
Dear Drew,
What is your approach to becoming open to the idea of dating post-divorce? I have the desire, yet I feel reluctant.

I haven't fully achieved that myself. My current life journey continues to somewhat astonish and please me. However, please refrain from feeling inadequate regarding individual paces of progression. Each person possesses a distinct method of recuperating from a broken heart. It is imperative that we retrieve that which we perceive to be absent and acquire it independently. Only then will our ability to offer affection be restored. Confidence, too, represents a significant hurdle. Its re-establishment can be a protracted process. Moreover, we must resist attributing the conduct of one individual to another. The past transgressor was not this new person. Your apprehension and hurt stem from a different past relationship. You are responsible for your own recovery, and subsequently, for not superimposing past experiences onto a new connection in the present moment. Such processes require patience. Therefore, allow yourself the necessary preparation period to cultivate conditions for success — by doing so, you will approach new beginnings from a position of resilience rather than vulnerability.

Best, Drew

@john.mason.37 inquires:
Dearest Drew,
Upon awakening daily, what holds your greatest appreciation?

A particular area where I perceive myself to be less adept is with that initial thought upon waking! My mornings don't typically begin with sentiments such as, “I am thankful for this, and truly fortunate to be living.” My customary morning thoughts revolve around: chilled beverage, the sound of the alarm, preparing my children for school, and punctual arrival at work. Subsequently, as my day progresses, I can discern any deficiencies in my appreciation and identify areas where I need to adjust my outlook. I aspire to be the type of person who commences the day by cataloging all blessings, yet more often, I operate on an intense, automatic mode focused on “accomplishing tasks.” Therefore, when my children have matured, when my schedule is less demanding, and when I possess more leisure time to appreciate life’s simple pleasures… I anticipate awakening with an altered viewpoint. However, your inquiry has truly prompted me to reflect on that initial cognition. Ironically, despite maintaining a journal of thanks, I never engage with it immediately after rising. I suspect I would need to adjust my alarm to ring ten minutes earlier and resist the urge to activate the snooze function (a habit I frequently indulge). My morning ritual, frankly, is not one to emulate… indeed, your question is assisting me in recognizing its disarray. The silver lining is that expressing thankfulness is appropriate at any hour, be it morning, afternoon, or evening. I extend my appreciation for your thoughtful suggestion!

With gratitude, Drew