Hollywood's New Men: How Travis Kelce and Tom Holland Are Redefining Masculinity
To be clear: My affection for men is unwavering.
However, gentlemen, you frequently present challenges. From figures heading local clubs that seem to disparage women and seeking public office, to the emergence of the incel phenomenon and persistent, archaic beliefs that result in Us women bearing the brunt of domestic and childcare duties even while maintaining full-time careers, the widespread nature of detrimental masculine norms can hinder our ability to appreciate you, even from a distance.
Fortunately, a fresh interpretation of masculinity is gaining traction in Hollywood, providing both men and those who care for them a remedy to the overly macho 'bro' culture that often impedes heterosexual men among Us.
Consider Travis Kelce — an imposing 6’5’’, 250-pound figure who excels in what is arguably among the globe’s most aggressive, boastful athletic competitions. It would be understandable for someone to imagine him unceremoniously whisking women away, escorting them to the nearest kitchen, and instructing them to prepare a meal. However, he is instead demonstrating to men a model of genuine, supportive companionship through his bond with Taylor Swift. He exhibits no apprehension in pursuing a partner significantly more renowned and accomplished, who earns and possesses considerably greater wealth, thus not "requiring" his presence but, rather, appearing to genuinely desire it.
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The prospective Hall of Fame tight end openly acknowledges that, indeed, he shed tears upon proposing to Swift, confirming that he is an “emotional individual.” Furthermore, he is content to stand among young adolescents adorned with numerous friendship bracelets, enthusiastically singing ballads of Romeo and Juliet while his more prominent partner commands the attention.
In a society that has overtly praised men's capacity for emotional suppression — unless expressing anger — Kelce is cheerfully celebrating in a tuxedo alongside his superstar fiancée, readily conceding that he is the fortunate party and that it's a privilege to be Mr. Swift.
Next, we have Tom Holland, who, based on popular social media accounts, appears to have captivated Zendaya by dramatically lip-syncing to an iconic track by Rihanna, complete with a wig, corset, and fishnets. As an actual Marvel superhero, Holland, much like his athletic counterpart, serves as a reminder to Us all that self-expression takes numerous forms — forms that transcend the boundaries of our conventional ideas about gender or sex.
For instance, in a society that dictates men should be taller than their female partners, Holland challenges Us all by declaring it a “foolish premise” and, instead, illustrates to men the enduring appeal of understated confidence and unwavering self-possession. Indeed, even — and arguably particularly — while wearing elevated footwear.
Naturally, for those among Us who wish for men to develop emotional intelligence beyond a minimal capacity, Benny Blanco is an undeniable idol. Following his engagement to Selena Gomez, Blanco articulated several straightforward, yet regrettably rare, truths about a thriving relationship.
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“I believe the primary issue for many, particularly men, is our consistent failure to listen. It is imperative that we listen. Simply be silent and listen,” he advised during a recent podcast interview. “Heed their words — a woman will explicitly communicate her requirements.”
In that same conversation, Blanco discussed engaging with his fiancée on her own terms, granting her autonomy when necessary, and, crucially, listening rather than attempting to forcefully intervene in her life under the guise of “problem-solving.” The music producer’s counsel is straightforward, yet deeply insightful because, notwithstanding traditional anxieties, young men seldom encounter tangible instances of such gentle, balanced romantic connections.
In summary? Gentlemen, there's a clear explanation for why all three gentlemen previously mentioned are either engaged (and in Blanco's situation, recently wed!) to three of the most intelligent, captivating, and accomplished women globally.
This is precisely why numerous among Us became emotional witnessing Katherine LaNasa’s husband, Grant Show, shed tears when his wife received a 2025 Emmy Award for her performance in the acclaimed HBO Max series, The Pitt. As his wife ascended the stage, Show — an accomplished actor himself — felt no compulsion to conceal his feelings in response to his partner's achievement. Observing his wife receive her rightful accolades was an honor, not an affront to his self-esteem or a challenge to his masculinity.
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“My pride is immeasurable,” he declared during a red carpet appearance before the event. “Truly, even articulating this is going to bring me to tears. You see, I've observed her, and her work ethic surpasses that of anyone I am acquainted with. I have witnessed her persistent efforts, knocking on every door, finally achieving recognition for her dedication over three and a half decades. It is simply a profound delight.”
It is invigorating to see several prominent and supporting male figures in Hollywood demonstrate this refreshed interpretation of masculinity, regardless of whether they are in formal wear, athletic gear, or a superhero costume. This provides those among Us who adore and nurture men with a glimmer of optimism — optimism that they too can muster the bravery to reveal their more sensitive sides rather than rigidly conforming to societal norms.
Because, frankly, Us women are weary of propping up men's delicate self-esteem as they endeavor to contort themselves into the restrictive definitions of what has traditionally been labeled “masculine.” Those among Us who seek enduring partnerships — romantic or otherwise — prioritize fairness, modesty, gentleness, and empathy. Fortunately, we are now observing these qualities openly exhibited by accomplished musicians, Super Bowl-winning football players, and soaring Avengers.
