Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's "Chill" Santa Barbara Wedding Details Revealed

Following their engagement in December 2024, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have been unhurried in organizing their wedding.
Blanco revealed in July 2025 that due to their demanding schedules, he and Gomez “haven’t even had time to get into” preparing their nuptials, as they were “both working on so many things.”
“But we’re so excited,” he conveyed on Jake Shane’s “Therapuss” podcast. “I think this summer, we’re going to sit down and be like, ‘OK, what are we doing, hun?’”
Just over a month after Blanco provided an update on their wedding progress, Gomez journeyed to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, for her bachelorette celebration with her inner circle of friends.
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“It was your typical, traditional bachelorette and what Selena wanted,” an insider informed Us Weekly in August 2025. “She was radiating all weekend and was so happy to have downtime with her girlfriends. Selena is a simple girl, and the little things go a long way with her. She truly exudes happiness when she talks about Benny. She is very excited to start this next chapter with him.”
Concurrently, Blanco hosted a bachelor party in Las Vegas, enjoying time with several male friends, among them rapper Lil Dicky.
Continue below for all the details known about Gomez and Blanco’s upcoming nuptials:
It’s Going to Be ‘Chill’
Although Blanco mentioned in July 2025 that the couple's demanding professional lives had prevented them from initiating wedding arrangements, he assured that their celebration would be extraordinary.
“It will be chill,” he enthused on the “Therapuss” podcast. “It will be amazing.”
The Wedding Planning Process Has Been ‘Wonderful’
Gomez stated in September 2025 that arranging her wedding has been “wonderful.”
“I’m very lucky,” she expressed on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. “It’s going well. I’m so excited.”
Her Preferred Wedding Dessert
Gomez revealed that she prefers not to have “a big cake” for her wedding celebration.
“I think I’d want a mini one for just us that we can freeze,” she mentioned through her beauty brand, Rare Beauty’s TikTok in July 2025. “My preferred dessert would be biscuits and gravy. My Nana’s biscuits and gravy — that sounds like dessert to me.”
They Likely Won’t Have a Traditional First Dance
By April 2025, Gomez indicated that she “doesn’t think” she and Blanco will partake in a conventional first dance.
“She’s shy,” Blanco commented on the “Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware” podcast, preceding Gomez’s revelation that she wishes to share a dance with her maternal grandfather. “I’m looking to have a special dance with my papa. He never got a chance to walk my mom [Mandy Teefey] down the aisle because, good for my mom, she decided to go to Vegas and was like, ‘Whoooo’ and she’s still been with him [Brian Teefey] ever since she was 26. So it’s very cute that they did that. But I wanted to give my grandfather the opportunity to have that.”
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Gomez mentioned that even without a customary first dance, she intends to honor Blanco’s Jewish background by performing the Hora. (The Hora typically involves the newly married couple being hoisted into the air on chairs by their wedding attendees.)
“I am very nervous about that,” Gomez admitted. “I have to be honest, it looks so cute and adorable. But I was like, ‘What, I have to depend on something like this?’ I just gotta have a padding around.”
Martin Short Will Be the Ring Bearer
Gomez disclosed that her Only Murders in the Building castmate and dear friend Martin Short is set to have a significant part in her wedding.
“Marty’s the ring bearer,” she stated on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon.
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Short further remarked that he and Steve Martin are “so excited” for Gomez’s upcoming marriage.
“We love this lady and we love her fiancé, Bad Bunny,” Short quipped before Gomez gently corrected him, “Benny Blanco.”
Several Stars Will Be in Attendance
Beyond Short and Martin, several other celebrities have verified their attendance at Gomez and Blanco’s wedding, such as Paris Hilton, Ed Sheeran, David Henrie, Taylor Swift and Ashley Park.
When Will They Say ‘I Do’?
An insider exclusively informed Us that Gomez and Blanco are set to exchange vows in Santa Barbara, California, during September 2025.
“Guests still do not know exact locations for the rehearsal or the wedding,” the source clarified, adding that shuttle buses will transport attendees from their accommodations to the festivities.